hEy gAls...
alOt 0f u all kEep remiNding mi thAt mY b'dAe iS c0ming...
aCtuAlly t0 mi.. thiS yeAr i reAlly dOnt nEed a big celebrAti0n...
jUst a few of u all acc0mpAny mi eAt cAn liAos.. or go sh0pping 0r s0mething like thAt ba... wEider suggest g0ing k b0x.. bUdden he 0nlY kn0e a fEw chinese s0ngs.. hE prefers engliSh s0ngs..
0kie.. he sAid he will cElebrAte with mi on a sepArate dAy from ya gAls.. hAiss... thEre are mAny fAct0rs i am w0rrying ab0ut... reAlli..
awkwArdness if i invite mY p0ly frens alOng...
0rganising iS reAlli mA fAn...
likE mY lAst bbq, i spEnt the wh0le nite mArinAting chicken.. And hAs t0 asK ying they all help mi cArry things there anD p0ke the chicken and sAtay stiCks... hAhass... aNd the minOrity will get lEft 0ut t00.. we hAd l0tsa fUn.. bUt tink this yeAr bettA n0ts lAhs...
And s0meh0w i aM afraid thAt thiS yeAr everything tUrn out sAdd.. as thEre aRe mAny fAct0rs leading t0 it...
i aM s0rrie shEllen.. n0t that i d0nt wAnna t0 haVe a c0mbined bbQ oR chAlet with u.. i kn0e mAybe to u, being 18 iS an imp0rtAnt year... s0rrie...
Wednesday, March 30, 2005
Tuesday, March 29, 2005
=P
eXams are finAlly finAlly 0ver...
BuddEn it iS bEri bEri bOring stAying at h0me..
mAybe next weeK i gonnA fiNd a j0b..
bUt d0 wAt? g0 whEre w0rk? dunn0 lEhs...
hAis.. eZra's mUm's c0mpAny g0t 0ne bUdden the pe0ple there hAvent cAlled j0anne they all... aNd i thiNk it iS bettA n0t t0 see ezrA agAin evEn in the h0ls.. hahas..
thE day bef0re the dAy bef0re yesterdAy, i did s0mething reAlly bAd.. cAnt tEll u.. =P.. wh0 aSk thAt gUy mAke mi s00oo00 aNgry.. hahas.. Ying n0es wAt i am tAlking ab0ut..
i hAve b0rr0wed Vcds, b0ught a b0ok bY nich0las spArks (thE guArdian), b0ught mAgazine.. bUt i am still s0oo s0oo b0red..
mY c0urse chAlet c0ming up.. i d0nt feEl like g0ing.. g0t 0ther clAsses lEhs.. bUt d0nt g0 is like wEt blAnket lEhs.. s0mem0re jAs0n they all are g0ing.. g0 and see h0w bahss..
0kies.. st0pping here... wAiting f0r shEllen's replY t0 g0 0ut t0dAy.. anD on fridAy i am g0ing t0 weidEr's h0use to wAtch dvDs whicH he b0ught dUring mY exAms peri0d... anD a pr0mise to wAtch t0gether after i finiSh mY exAms..
cinderellA st0ry
nAti0nal treAsure
13 g0ing 0n 30
vAn hEllsing
bRide & prejudiCe
thEy arE all wAiting f0r mi!!!
BuddEn it iS bEri bEri bOring stAying at h0me..
mAybe next weeK i gonnA fiNd a j0b..
bUt d0 wAt? g0 whEre w0rk? dunn0 lEhs...
hAis.. eZra's mUm's c0mpAny g0t 0ne bUdden the pe0ple there hAvent cAlled j0anne they all... aNd i thiNk it iS bettA n0t t0 see ezrA agAin evEn in the h0ls.. hahas..
thE day bef0re the dAy bef0re yesterdAy, i did s0mething reAlly bAd.. cAnt tEll u.. =P.. wh0 aSk thAt gUy mAke mi s00oo00 aNgry.. hahas.. Ying n0es wAt i am tAlking ab0ut..
i hAve b0rr0wed Vcds, b0ught a b0ok bY nich0las spArks (thE guArdian), b0ught mAgazine.. bUt i am still s0oo s0oo b0red..
mY c0urse chAlet c0ming up.. i d0nt feEl like g0ing.. g0t 0ther clAsses lEhs.. bUt d0nt g0 is like wEt blAnket lEhs.. s0mem0re jAs0n they all are g0ing.. g0 and see h0w bahss..
0kies.. st0pping here... wAiting f0r shEllen's replY t0 g0 0ut t0dAy.. anD on fridAy i am g0ing t0 weidEr's h0use to wAtch dvDs whicH he b0ught dUring mY exAms peri0d... anD a pr0mise to wAtch t0gether after i finiSh mY exAms..
cinderellA st0ry
nAti0nal treAsure
13 g0ing 0n 30
vAn hEllsing
bRide & prejudiCe
thEy arE all wAiting f0r mi!!!
Tuesday, March 22, 2005
FuNdaMentAls of lOve
Message: Fundamentals of love~meaninful~T
Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on her.
You found yourself charmed by the way she talks, the way she dresses herself to show off her best features and the way she embraces life with her laughter.
It seemed as if a mysterious "chemistry effect" has suddenly developed to draw you closer to her. You two then began to meet regularly, and you discover more things that you admire about her. Her clever ideas, her healthy values and the way she stands up for you when others doubt you.
You find yourself thinking of her not just as a normal friend, but a very good friend. It is often during this period that a boy and a gal will start thinking of bringing their friendship to another level.
After all, the kind of wonderful experience you have with each other can only become even better if it develops into a romantic relationship. In other words, the feeling is really unique - no one else seems able to replace her in your heart. So both of you agree to go steady and work even harder on the relationship. You "graduate" to become a couple, and are the envy of the sea of singles.
WHEN YOU FORGET THE FUNDAMENTALS:
However, at some point in your relationship, you forgot how it all began. You start to take your partner for granted. Why can't she laugh in a more ladylike manner?Why doesn't she dress herself more trendily? Why must she assert her views and point out your silly mistakes? Is she really the one for you?
To be fair to yourself and her, take some time to reflect on your "love memory". The "love memory" contains all the reasons that you fell in love with her right from Day One. It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has changed since meeting and loving her.
Pre-steady days, did you heap compliments on her for the brave way she spoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You probably did. Did you like her unusual fashion sense that makes her stand out from the crowd? Right-o.
So why are you riticising or finding fault with her now that she is your girlfriend?
Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love, like so many of us. You have forgotten the easons you admired her during the friendship phase.
Instead, once you went steady, you put your "love memory" in cold storage. As her boyfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations about her.
These new ideas are not necessarily better; they could put your relationship at risk.
THE SECRET TO LONG RELATIONSHIPS:A healthy relationship, like learning to walk properly, follows a step-by-step development. You can't possibly become part of a couple if you aren't friends in the first place.
Ok, I know some of us break the rule and plunge straight into whirlwind courtship, but how many of those couples can go the distance? Couplehood works well when there is something you like about her (and vice versa), and I'm not referring to MERELY the physical aspects.
So whenever your relationship hits a rocky path, don't give up without checking on your "love memory". Rediscover the reasons why you fell in love with her, and watch your relationship flourish with a newfound vigour.
"Follow the rule of love and enjoy it, as loving someone is a wonderful and sweet experience.."
cherish wat u hav!wish all couples alway lovin forever!
Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on her.
You found yourself charmed by the way she talks, the way she dresses herself to show off her best features and the way she embraces life with her laughter.
It seemed as if a mysterious "chemistry effect" has suddenly developed to draw you closer to her. You two then began to meet regularly, and you discover more things that you admire about her. Her clever ideas, her healthy values and the way she stands up for you when others doubt you.
You find yourself thinking of her not just as a normal friend, but a very good friend. It is often during this period that a boy and a gal will start thinking of bringing their friendship to another level.
After all, the kind of wonderful experience you have with each other can only become even better if it develops into a romantic relationship. In other words, the feeling is really unique - no one else seems able to replace her in your heart. So both of you agree to go steady and work even harder on the relationship. You "graduate" to become a couple, and are the envy of the sea of singles.
WHEN YOU FORGET THE FUNDAMENTALS:
However, at some point in your relationship, you forgot how it all began. You start to take your partner for granted. Why can't she laugh in a more ladylike manner?Why doesn't she dress herself more trendily? Why must she assert her views and point out your silly mistakes? Is she really the one for you?
To be fair to yourself and her, take some time to reflect on your "love memory". The "love memory" contains all the reasons that you fell in love with her right from Day One. It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has changed since meeting and loving her.
Pre-steady days, did you heap compliments on her for the brave way she spoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You probably did. Did you like her unusual fashion sense that makes her stand out from the crowd? Right-o.
So why are you riticising or finding fault with her now that she is your girlfriend?
Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love, like so many of us. You have forgotten the easons you admired her during the friendship phase.
Instead, once you went steady, you put your "love memory" in cold storage. As her boyfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations about her.
These new ideas are not necessarily better; they could put your relationship at risk.
THE SECRET TO LONG RELATIONSHIPS:A healthy relationship, like learning to walk properly, follows a step-by-step development. You can't possibly become part of a couple if you aren't friends in the first place.
Ok, I know some of us break the rule and plunge straight into whirlwind courtship, but how many of those couples can go the distance? Couplehood works well when there is something you like about her (and vice versa), and I'm not referring to MERELY the physical aspects.
So whenever your relationship hits a rocky path, don't give up without checking on your "love memory". Rediscover the reasons why you fell in love with her, and watch your relationship flourish with a newfound vigour.
"Follow the rule of love and enjoy it, as loving someone is a wonderful and sweet experience.."
cherish wat u hav!wish all couples alway lovin forever!
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