i promised 5 people to go out with them last last week. i only fulfil 3.. ying, shellen and wei der. the 2 i am sorries.. hehes.. then last week i promised another 2 people to go out. yet both of them cant go ultimately.. RETRIBUTION? i could open a serangoon airport.. good for flying planes. hahas.




National Day is coming~ i am looking forward to e beautiful fireworks! i promised not to work that day.. go have a very very good day out!!!





i had PMS.. now it's leading to slight depression.. feeling low.. dont feel like talking nor feel like doing anything.. and most importantly i feel hurt all the time.. every breath i take now is painful.. it's affecting mi alot.. maybe i shld see a doctor.. :(







i read this from Cle0.. "the 3-C friends you need to manage"



1. The Competitor
She's always comparing herself to you - and trying to outdo you. it's as if she's made it her life's mission to be the better woman. When you do outshine her, she sulks and stays away from you until she finds something else for you two to compete for.




handle her: if she''s compeititive in a particular area, like career for instance. Keep your chats with her free of job-related topics. When she gets too compeitive, say something like "ok! You win" sand see if she'll back off. If you feel she's tearing your self-esteem to bits, ask yourself if the friendship is worth the abuse.













2. The Copycat
From sportng the same hairstyle to buying the same limited-edition t-shirt, this girl will do anything to become your twin. When it's time for you both to get a job or book a holiday, she'll insist you make the same choices as her. If you don't, she's offended and stomps off in anger.





Handle her: imitation may be the best from form of flattery but if your friend is cramping your style, it's time to take action. Outright rejection of her demands to follow her choices will only lower her self-esteem and lead to her copying you more. Instead, direct her attention to her unique assets. "This colour is perfect on your skin tone. It doesn't work well on me. Lucky you."














3. Cry baby
This emotional leech has a crisis every time she meets you. From a new pet that won't behave to her workaholic boyfriend, it's always the world against her. Besides exhausting your supply of Kleenex, she asks for too much help and attention at the most in appropriate times, like when you're on a hot date.





Handle her: Ever wonder why she only calls you and not other friends? that's because you're the only one who gives a damn. Barring life-threatening situations, you have to learn how to give lukewarm responses to outbursts like "My manicurist has left town!" f you don't have the heart to turn her away, book yourself a 2 months holiday and leave your phone behind!

my KL trip is tiring.. hahas.. my 2nd time out of s'pore so i am really blur.. wei der got checked by custom becos of mi.. i was panicking and made the officer suspect us.. wei der was afraid that i got lost and get kidnapped that his eyes never leave mi.. hahas.. am i really that sotong??






coloured and cut my hair.. now dark reddish brown.. like it lots.. and i am taller by 3cm.. 159cm.. for those who disagree pls try not to tell me.. hahas.. tink i will really look like 19 now..







work 6 days straight last week.. 2 days of pastamania and 4 days of s'pore expo.. the expo exhibition was on wedding..our booth is to get people to sign up for wedding videography and photography.. we thought it'll be fun but then.... BORING!! no business de.. but we get to see beautiful models in their wedding gowns..



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do me a favour and visit these 2 websites k? they are set up by my frens.. if u wanna buy anything there, tag mi..






PMS thoughts...


sometimes.. we tend to look at the surface of things and judge it immediately.. well.. maybe we can try to look into the details before we do any assumptions.. wei der always say i take things too hard.. sometimes i shld learn to let some of them go.. tink i am too lack of confidence.. i will keep thinking of a sad thing instead of 10 happy things happening ard mi.. Are all girls like that toO?





my confidence has sank throughout the years in the past and i am glad that it has been building up recently..i didnt mean to do anything to hurt anyone.. even if i do, i didnt know it..


i hope that 1 day i will love myself totally..

went midnight sales with jo they all at suntec after attending SYF.. and we bought 2 same shirts! 2 for $20~ i really really like 1 shop recently.. Outfitter grid..








took ages to clear up my wardrobe.. it was pretty untidy.. and now i realised i have lots of clothes but more than half i neber wear cos i think i looked fat while some other people neber wear le so i didnt too..







AND most importantly i lost some clothes i really like too.. my mum drop them on other people's bamboo sticks while hanging them out to dry.. think the 2nd to 4th floor's neighbours took them.. haha!








wen king told mi to go donate them to Salvation Army.. but i am kind of don bear to part with my clothes.. i rather give them to my frens.. hahas.. BUT then who would want them man?!! maybe i shall hold some 'exchange clothes' party at my house over night.. hahas..









and yahs.. PS bread talk has changed to 'Carls Jr'. i went to this restuarant b4 at marina square.. and it is something like MAc.. but the price is twice for a meal~ not filling 4 mi.. hahas..