Tuesday, September 10, 2013

The Proposal. Marini's on 57. Part II





Felt pangs of hunger while we were watching sunset from the top of the Petronas Tower. :D
Our dinner reservation was at 8.45pm; I'll be too starved if I waited till then, so we settled down at a cafe which serves a fairly limited selection of pastries.


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Their o-neh o-neh is such a large piece, contrary to our small but plenty ones in SG. The coconut shavings were little, the coconut fluid was too watery; it is like drinking plain water. On top of the disappointment, the Ice Milo was bland too, diluted to the point whereby you thought you were drinking some sugary water.
However much to my surprise, the curry puff tasted alot more flavorful, and better than most of the puffs I tasted.



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He complained of diarrhoea and hence took quite a while in the rest room (which was an excuse to do something else). He brought his briefcase along, so I teased him once more, "You can leave your bag behind, I will take care of it for u." He muttered under his breath, "No no, sometimes the toilet no toilet paper," and scampered away. Lol! Simba has never been a tissue paper bringer!




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Starved and exhausted from the morning flight, we plopped down into the comfy couch and waited excruciatingly for the time to pass.

Dirty loafers and purple socks weren't one of my proudest moments. My necklace is one of my favourites; I love warm colours imprinted on each of these triangular pieces that make up the necklace. (I have not been able to resist the accessories from Lovisa, an accessory shop which originated from Australia, since I am so drawn to the sight of girls using their eyes to feast on them from shelf to shelf in the shop.)



Marini's on 57 was the renowned restaurant he chose, one which has earned acclaims from many reviewers. 
An overall view of the restaurant taken from its website:

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I didn't know there is a Tower 3 in addition to Petronas Towers 1 and 2 until PH found it out when we patronised the restaurant's website (That's when she was pretty sure he is gonna propose.)
The restaurant was the loft of Tower 3, and being on the 57th floor we could view the entire KL city's skyline from our position.


At 8.30pm after we rode the elevator to the topmost floor, we were led by an amicable waiter to a table by the window where we get to see the picturesque scenery on the grounds of the restaurant.


I was impressed but at the same time unsettled as we walked along the aisle of the restaurant, with bits of me feeling pressurised by its ambience. Frankly, I felt pretty awkward and out of place in the restaurant; every lady there looked probably in their early 30s, but is elegant and irresistibly stunning in their lavishly embellished evening dress and stiletto heels.The way they sit, behave and talk to their other half made it seem like they totally belonged there. 

Back in the hotel room, I was just casually preparing for dinner; I slipped on my $30 Missypixie maxi dress, topped with a $30 cardigan from UBay Times Square, accessorized with a $30 Lovisa necklace, and put on a undoubtedly comfy pair of $150 Sperry loafers and a pair of purple polka-dot $2 socks from Korea. Lol!


I knew there's gonna be a proposal a week ago, and I actually didn't go shop for a more formal evening dress! You can't imagine how unprepared I was!

So then, unwillingly, my presence stood out among the mature and beautiful ladies. Lol! But being just me who can be so immersed in my little world with Simba (Me and Him Against The World), I avoided gazes of the other guests' and became quickly engrossed in both admiring the beauty of the scenic view beside us and the beauty of the Italian food right in front of me.




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Ensconced on our comfy alyssa armchairs, we were also delirious to see the lit up city through the window-to-ceiling glass panes.




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Soft lighting makes the pictures we took look serene and romantic;
it's literally seeing Simba in a new light. LOL!



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Not only were the rose petals and candles found on our table, they were also scattered on the bottom ledge of the window beside us.
We were also the only couple taking the window seat (I knew later that the taking window seat will incur extra charges).

Thus, I had to act ignorant and make fun of him again. "Why are we the only ones having rose petals and candles on our table?"
And he said, "Cos we ordered the full course set menu." LOL! I was stressed, not only by the gnawing anxiety in guessing where he would propose (whether in a restaurant full of guests or elsewhere), but also from containing the urge not to burst out laughing when his responses got lame!

Anyway being a rather unromantic person and someone who loves nature, I said, "But I don't like the rose petals. Why are they killing roses???" It got Simba dumbfounded for a while before he said, "Ohhhh... It's like that one la... Romantic ma."
LOL



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I like that the wine glasses were focused more than me, it's like I'm blending into the ambience of the restaurant, to put it in a really nice way. Lol.



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We were greeted by a menu containing the 5-course set meal that would be prepared for the night. (All appetizer, mains and desserts were personally handpicked by Simba together with his reservation. Ya, I didn't choose anything.) According to Simba, we would be tasting the most unadulterated Italian cuisine.



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Showed my uni friends these photos, and when Kevin commented that the wine glasses were ultra big, I said, "Yup, ours is the biggest; none of the other tables have such big wine glasses. I have never seen wine glasses this big!"
The genial waiter, knowing that Simba had made an eventful life-changing decision to propose, first asked him to order sparkling water while waiting for me to pick the wine. Then when the sparkling water came, he said he wanna put forth his recommendation, and recommended one of their finest white wines which, of course, cost a bomb. And to my utter shock, he put on a calm smile and generously ordered a bottle of it instead of just two glasses! Lol. Two glasses are fine, but a bottle??????
A bottle costs nearly S$300!! I could easily buy 10 apparels with that amount of money!!

"WHAT IS HE THINKING?" was the exact thought that run through my mind at that moment! However, again not to spoil the whole mood, I kept quiet and gave him the most genuine smile (I wanted so much to protest but well... Decided to give my man a chance to make every decision for me that evening).

Anyway, TW said I was really patient about it since I guessed it beforehand and was faking ignorance the whole day, and if it had been another girl, she would have demanded, "Just give me the ring la."

I didn't use to think that in fact waiting to be proposed requires mastering patience.

Patience is golden.
Patience is golden.
Patience is golden.

Girls, be patient and I assure you that you will still get that deserving moment when he finally proposes!


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Studying the menu to see if I could imagine that I have tasted any before but gave up eventually to leave that imagination to the creativity of the chefs'.



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He took a picture of the glowing KL tower, and then laughed at how silly I looked. 



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To keep us occupied while waiting to be served with the antipasti, we were introduced to the taste of an appetizer, which was some sort of pie with seafood stuffings. I couldn't recall its name since I was having butterflies in my stomach being in such a classy place and the waitress who introduced the dish spoke too quickly; I only remembered it was awesome to a very significant extent but couldn't pinpoint which seafood was stuffed into the pie. This shows how stressed and distracted I was! Lol!
(The appetizer was complimentary, so obvious right!)


Occasional winks from the waiters and his unusually frequent visits to the toilet have made me accustomed to acting as if nothing peculiar was gonna happen. Once I caught a waiter winking at him and with his face flushed he responded with an sincerely awkward answer, "The people here are so friendly, aren't they?"


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Anyway, the white wine indeed lived up to its name of being the most recommended one in the restaurant. Every sip is sweet but not too sweet, and has a strong alcoholic taste, which was just right for me
The waiter poured the wine into the glass and told Junwen to test it before he served it to me. And looking at how sincerely he held and swirled the wine like an expert made me laugh. I'm so bad!



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The antipasti was Panzanella Alla Toscana. Munching on almost raw meat and almost raw vegs is definitely not my cup of tea so I gulped down a whole lot of wine after swallowing some tomatoes.
This dish was a no-no for the both of us.



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Intermittent greetings from the waiters punctuated our conversation throughout our dinner. Everything was still a surmise at that point of time but other than entirely trusting PH's intuition, the overly enthusiastic waiters/waitresses were pretty much the biggest hint.
I lost count of how many times the waiters came over to ask if everything is good. Their attention was mainly focused on us and I felt about 3 pairs of eyes watching us the whole time. The moment I dropped the napkin (I dropped it twice), the waiter rushed over to put a new one on my lap. The moment I stood up to go to the washroom, the waiter would usher me there and wait outside, and opened the door for me when I was done.
This picture was voluntarily taken by the waiter when I was absorbed in randomly taking candid shots of everything around me!

My anxiety attack started to act up, since I didn't really like that much attraction and to be interrupted throughout the dinner, so then again I had to banter with him, "Why do they keep coming to us? I don't like! So scary!" Lol!

After many words of affirmation from Simba, I calmed down but that was when the waiter led us to the balcony outside of the restaurant for us to take photographs of it and with it.



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The view of the twin towers from the restaurant was top-notch; the towers stood tall and had a prominent glow in the night sky. They were also one of the main culprits that no stars could be seen all night. Lol.


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One of my favourite pics of the evening.

Couldn't decide what pic to post and what to discard so wanna put all of them here! :D



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There were two waiters who followed us to the balcony and put in tremendous efforts to help us with the pics. Lol! They held my camera and kept themselves busy in taking pics of us from different angles. I'm so gravely thankful to them and their spontaneity! :D



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One of the Mains - Pennette alla Norma.
The waiter gave us a lucid description of every dish served and for this he said it could be savoured together with the mint leaves. We can pluck out the mint leaves from the plant and add them to our dish if we could tolerate the taste of mint. Me can me can!
The large piece stacked on top of the penne pasta is eggplant.


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The mint plant became part of the ornament on our table.


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The other main was a selection between 2 options, fish and beef. 
Of course without any hesitation, I chose beef. 

Filetto di angus Col Midollo.
120 Days Grain Fed Australian Angus Beef Tenderloin, Roasted Bone Marrow & Baby Carrots.
So enticed by the taste and smell of the medium well steak! I would go there again just to taste a morsel of it.
It was just a pity that I was full after the eggplant pasta and the curry puff I had in the cafe earlier on, as I found it myself struggling hard to finish it when it was so heavenly! :D


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He chose fish.
Branzino Arrosto Con Finocchio.
Roasted Mediterranean Sea Bass, Fennel Puree, Taggiasche Olives & Crotacue Cream.








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Then their specialty dessert was served - enormous cotton candy on a plate! We saw many of these on other guests' table too, and those couples beamed at the sight of it.



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We were led by the waiter through a trail of rose petals to the other side of the restaurant, a private outdoor patio that contain a few coffee tables and some Adirondack chairs to have our dessert.


The waiter draped a shawl over me as he noticed that I was trembling when in fact I didn't but I accepted it since the colour is so pretty! I was wearing a cardigan underneath so I looked so kuku. Lol.


The secret patio was a placid place initially, if not for the waiter who came by again and again to interrupt us.





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The tower from our position.



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I didn't know cotton candy will settle if not eaten immediately. Cotton candy is a spun candy which comprises of mostly air, so although it looks sinful and voluminous, it is actually made up of a smaller amount of candy.
We grabbed a few bites by sticking our hands into it and then tearing bits of it out. It fell below my sky-high expectations as it didn't taste special, so I guess cotton candy tastes the same everywhere, whether it is made by a genial uncle in a funfair or a candy maker in a restaurant.




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The waiter was actually trying to get Simba's attention as it was time for him to propose but there was no slightest action or hint of getting down with it yet. I wasn't expecting the eager waiters and waitresses to daringly stand behind me and holding a bouquet of roses to gesture Simba to quickly pop the question! I also didn't realise that he was actually communicating with them through eye contact. I was happily popping cotton candy in my mouth and drinking wine like there's no tomorrow. (Simba didn't want to drink too much wine, fearing that his face will flush red and that he will appear drunk in every photo that night if he drinks too much. So I was on my own in finishing the bottle of wine.)

Then the waiter came and gave me some tissues and utensils, and finally... he said, "Hi, we are gonna serve our last dessert now. So, Mr Tan do you have anything to say?"

He blushed, nodded and beckoned the waiter to leave us alone. However, the waiters and waitresses stayed just behind us, waiting for him to say whatever lines he has prepared. To their disappointment, he got very shy and harried, so he spoke so softly and rushed through the lines he has industriously prepared, skipping some in the process. I wasn't surprised at that moment since I expected it, I just laughed throughout not knowing what to say or how to react, but although I expected it, I was still very moved at the moment. The feeling was indeed indescribable; you can only comprehend it when you are being proposed to. :D


It was pretty funny that he spoke in English this time when we usually conversed in Chinese, so my immediate thought was that he made it so formal.
I could only vaguely remember what he said (the lines that left the impression was the awkwardly funny ones.)

"I have something to tell you... We have known each other for 1,XXX days (couldn't remember the exact number that he mentioned).
....
...
.."

Before he kneeled down and slipped the ring on my finger,
he was so overwhelmed with anxiety that he said formally, "So to this day, I would like to propose to you." LOL!!!

I would like to propose to you. LOL!!!

He opened the red engagement ring box (those typical ones that we see in dramas) to reveal the shimmering diamond ring, and I asked "Should I stand up?"
He was too busy to answer me, so I stood up, and he kneeled and asked me the most critical question of the night, "Will you marry me?"

I was in a haste too, so I said yes twice, and beckoned him to stand up. LOL.

Thinking back, I don't know why we rushed through it, him rushing through the lines and me rushing to say yes. I think we were both very very embarrassed to have strangers witnessing it.


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The waiters cheered and clapped, and coherently requested for us to kiss. I'm glad the pic turned out to look great. Colleagues and Uni friends who have seen this pic, said it was so sweet! 

The picture of him kneeling down was captured by the waiter's compact camera but it was really blur as the lighting was not in its favour. :( 
No amount of image post-processing could savage it.



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A toast to the newly found phase in our lives!


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The nice chef made this soulful, lively dessert to congratulate us!


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It was just too bad that my camera could not capture a high definition shot of the diamond even in the macro mode.



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Simba asked me to flaunt the flashy diamond. 
He said he would take another pic to replace this since I looked like I have no eyes, but I said this was okie since I looked very genuinely blissful! 





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The gift in his briefcase that he wholeheartedly put his life onto protecting was this handmade photo frame, and it sent me instantly to tears. The only one thing everyone was in sync with was his lack of artistic talent, so this artwork reflected his tremendous effort to make it look good.
When he finally confessed to how he made all these preparations, I found myself suppressing the urge to tear. :D




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Then I gave him some alone time with the proposal "props" as I knew he has been waiting for some crappy pics with them.


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We were congratulated again and again when we made our exit. I was drunk by then since I was almost done with the whole bottle of wine. Lol.

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The lanterns that lit up the rose petal trail They were quite a hazard since Simba and I didn't realise that we kicked it until both our pain receptors and the sound of the impact told us so.
Simba later asked me which photo I like the most from the whole set, and I chose a photo of us. Guess which pic he chose when I asked him back? Yes, it is this pic of the lantern. LOL. 


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We did more justice to the bouquet in better lighting the following day before we head out.






Monday, September 02, 2013

The Proposal 25th Aug 2013. Petronas Twin Towers. Marini's on 57. Part1.



I'm engaged on 25th Aug 2013. Thanks for all the heartwarming msgs! I'm truly touched by all of them. :D


Posted a photo of my ring on Instagram on 27th Aug in the hotel when I got access to the precious WiFi, and left the hotel room for more shopping! When I got to the airport and had unrestricted WiFi access, I saw 30+ msgs each in the Whatsapp group chats involving me and the Sec Sch friends, and me and the poly friends. 



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First person to see this was Miao's boyfriend I suppose since he pushed the "Like" button first. Soon, Miao announced it on our group chat, and everyone else logged into Instagram to check out the photo and my caption. 
Then later in the afternoon, Daniel saw it and the friends I knew from poly knew too. (Stole this pic from Daniel since he took a screenshot of it and send it to our group chat.)

Simba loves it simple; mine is a round brilliant cut, with a prong ring setting (4 prongs) to cradle the diamond. :D




I'm still contemplating whether I should post the photos on Facebook since it's kind of too public, so I would post them here first and tell my story with it as vividly as possible. :D


The first clue came when I (accidentally) saw an obvious decrease in his bank account savings about a week after he got his bonus. Although I could not fathom why he gave all of his bonus to his parents, I believed him! How much more gullible can I get??



Next, on the week before our trip to KL, he booked advanced tickets to sightseeing at the Petronas Towers, as well as a reservation at Marini's on 57, a restaurant at the 57th floor of the 3rd tower from which u can view the twin towers. I was like "Wow did he change his name from Mr Last Minute to Mr Eager?" LOL! Also, in our casual Whatsapp chat where we usually fill the space with scoldings or sarcasm, he asked out of the blue, "Do you really wanna marry me?" My suspicions started from there, and my sub-conscious told me to be more wary of his actions and reactions.


Then he repeated a few times to tell me to put together my best outfit as we would be heading to a classy restaurant and we don't wanna look like we don't belong there. "Wear as if you are attending a prom" were his exact words.


And then came the day where we were at the back seat of a cab and he said he lost so much weight that his fingers became bony and took my fingers for a super rough gauge. I was thinking, "Oh trying to estimate the circumference of the finger hoping to get the ring size right?" Lol.


But of course, I didn't read too much into everything that I have analysed thus far, since it still seemed so incredulous to me, until my suspicions were pretty much confirmed by PH when I told her that he wants to take me to the restaurant and told me to dress up specially for it.


Looks can be deceiving. His sincere wide-open eyes belie the liar in him. Simba loves to lie so much that even when he's exposed he continues to lie. This is what we call 睁着眼睛说瞎话。This time, firstly not to be a wet blanket, and secondly to test his mettle (on how determined he is gonna to lie his way through), I decided not to expose him and just play along, faking a surprised expression when I have to. LOL!


That day I had fun playing him. First, when he brought along his briefcase to visit the Petronas Towers, I asked, finishing the sentence with a smirk across my face, "Oh why do you need to bring your briefcase? Your wallet and phone are with me." And his response was, "Oh we are going to have our fine dining, and I thought having a briefcase adds to the impression." Lol.


As the observatory tower is a popular attraction among the tourists there, we had to either be punctual for our appointment with the tour guide or be late and forgo the opportunity to go up there and miss the fantastic view of the city. We lost our way in the tower while looking for the registration counter, and doubted that we could make it in time, but to our relief we were just in time for registration, thanks to the security guard who gave a set of clear instructions. (Not a single sign in the mall that could lead us to the counter, the directions given by the concierge staff weren't clear enough and only a particular flight of stairs could take us there so if we miss it, we could never get to the desolate basement.)



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We managed to take some photos before we took the elevator to the skybridge at the 41st floor and the top of the skyscraper at the 86th floor.



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Miniature model of the towers.



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Are we seeing double? Double Simba, Double tower.




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We were asked to deposit our bags at the Bag Deposit Counter before we were allowed to ride the elevator. Without a vestige of politeness, the staff asked Simba tactlessly, "Sir, what's in your bag?" Lol! Poor Simba who was caught by surprise, clutched onto his bag tightly and responded, "Nothing much, nothing much." I could clearly see him silently heave a sigh of relief when the staff didn't question him further when depositing his bag.

The black lanyard that we wore was to distinguish ourselves with the other group of tourists, so that the staff know who to chase away when it is time to go back.


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Me at the tower connector on the 41st floor. The exact copy of this skybridge is on the 42th floor but isn't open for the public. Rather, it is used as the bridge for the employees to conveniently transport goods between the towers.





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An enhanced image of the top view of Petronas mall's entrance!



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At the entrance of the sheltered skybridge. His shirt and pants were definitely not run-of-the-mill; see how much they fit them perfectly. So on top of all these careless hints that he has dropped, adding onto my suspicions was the fact that he was wearing tailored long-sleeved shirt and pants. When I asked him why, he said, "Oh buying tailor made clothes is a must do thing for every guy who goes to Bangkok." Oh really?




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I tried to be as inconspicuous as I could; blending in with the other people as much as possible, so that he won't propose on such a crowded touristy bridge or I would die of embarrassment. Did I tell you that he wasn't the only stressed person that day, I was also pretty stressed out from my whirling mind, filled with thoughts on where he would finally pop the question? I was practically praying that he wouldn't do it in front of so many strangers whom we may only see once in our lifetime.

But the attempt to be inconspicuous was in vain after a tourist volunteered to take a photograph of us on the bridge.



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Too bad my hair's black roots were sprouting out and so obvious in every photograph. Sigh. I got the hint too late so there wasn't enough time to re-dye my hair to prepare for the proposal. Well, anyway, a proposal wouldn't be called one if the girl had the time to prepare for it, agree?




More enhanced photos of the views of the city:

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The fast shutter speed didn't fail me at all; I managed to capture a shot of the fountain when the water was competing against gravity.





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With the facade of the other tower behind me. (Top of Tower one is a prohibited area btw).
With the lanyard, I felt like an employee belonging to the tower.





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He wanted to touch the tip of the bank building, but with my "clear" direction, his finger pierced through it.



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Awkward.



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Yup, I wore sneakers into the classy restaurant later on to save myself from the trouble of balancing on high heels and stressing my knees into something I wasn't really prepared for. Saving high heels for the wedding then~




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And we were guided to the elevator once again to catch a glimpse of the breathtaking view from the skyscraper's 86th floor!


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Petronas twin towers, Tower 1.
It's so magnificent and even more so at night (will post photos of it at part 2 of my entry).





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Sitting on top of the city. Too bad the lighting wasn't in my favour.



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In the heart of all the display panes where we can enjoy a majestic view of the city is a small gallery to get to know a bit of the towers. 



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Simba picked the perfect time for us watch a beautiful sunset from there.
Obvious isn't it?


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The giant and the tower.
Holding the pouch I got from Korea which was used to contain all my ringgit, since my bag was forbidden to travel 86 floors with me.
This maxi dress which was picked to be the formal dress that Simba emphasised on, must have made him disappointed. I really didn't think much of it when I went through my wardrobe, so I randomly picked one. Anyway, maxi dresses can't go too wrong right? I need to use it to cover my sneakers too. Love the cardigan which goes well with this dress; I got lucky when I found it at a shop at Times Square just when we were about to leave.



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Love how the clouds encircled the tower and how the sky enveloped it as if it were in its embrace.



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He was bent on producing an evidence of both of us who have been to the top of the skyscraper, so we waited patiently for someone who wasn't hurriedly rushing to get into the elevator to help us with a picture.


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Yup, the bag wasn't formal too, but it was the most presentable out of all backpacks I have. (A shoulder bag is still a bane of my life and with it I would lean on my right even more.)



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And a random photo of us riding the escalator back to the 1st floor of the Petronas mall.


Will try to blog Part 2 asap. Thanks for reading dears!